A bit about me, call me the “Dreamer ". I am 31year old mother of two, a little boy 2 and little girl 7. I have been happily with my love for 15years married for 8 of them. I have been with my husband since I’m 15 (all of my adult life). He passed away in March last year, 4 weeks after our son turned 1; after fighting kidney cancer he learned of only 19 days after Nic was born. I'm now thrust into this life of single motherhood, yet I’m not, single yet not, alone yet not. I believe there is a purpose in all things and now promised myself to find and fulfill that purpose. If I had to describe myself I would say I am a Wife, Mother, Widow, I don’t give people many chances to gain my support, I challenge the norm, I believe there is a solution to everything if you look hard enough you’ll find what you need. I am very spiritual and faith filled and intuitive I have coined the phrase Heaven IS NOT that far away. I live my life by divine guidance & faith. I have high expectations which I should consider lowering (sometimes), very opinionated, limited on patience for people and situations, I am funny or at least I think I am, I am gullible and open-minded Ill believe anything someone tells me unless I know for fact it’s wrong I don’t know everything. My children are my world, my gifts, and my responsibility, to be sure they too achieve their purpose and greatness in their own life and become productive members of society. I am loving but not so much caring, I really don’t give a shit about people and their problems especially when they are making them for themselves, I am bossy, I need to work on this. I am kind I do believe in pay it forward karma and all that jazz, but I could just as well spit on those who have done myself, my husband, my children, my family, and or friends wrong. Yes I’m a big grudge holder and don’t forgive well another flaw true I much rather remove the negative out of my life as best as possible then have to deal with untruthful nasty motive filled people! That is just a small bit of who I am today anyway, tomorrow is another day.
Hello, you can call me the "realist” I am also a mother of two young girls ages 6 & 10. I’ve been married for 11 years, and we’ve never had a fight (ha!). My daughters are a very big part of who I am, I believe I am raising my kidlets to be independent and self-sufficient women. I know that their potential is limitless and tell them that each and every day. A big reason why I wanted us to star this blog is because I find myself fed up and frustrated with the world around me. I’m tired of the ‘if only’s’, the ‘wish I could’s’ and so I want to help make the change. I know that my efforts will make a ripple that will keep going. Now if I were to describe myself I would say I’m too a Wife and Mother. I am a study in contradiction; I have a great respect for tradition even if some of them are made just for me, my husband and my children. I teach my children to think outside the box and around the corner. I am always wanting to learn something new no lie, I try to gain something new each day. I try very hard to not be judgmental, and to accept EVERYONE for who or what they are. I am a nurturer but I don’t coddle. I DO NOT use unnecessary language which is funny considering I’m surrounded by profanity in almost every conversation I have. Flying Fig is more my speed. I am creative. I am a great listener, a keeper of secrets so to speak. I too am spiritual and faith filled.... I am passive and not easily aggravated that’s not to say I don’t get aggravated I do just have a slight longer fuse then most. I do have an abundance of patients, but have no tolerance for liars and can’t abide by fools. Hmmm so that’s a glimpse of me there are many more layers, trust me.
So as you can see we complement each other, can be honest with each other and at times agree to disagree.